Just change the SHE to HE and call him Luke!
And let me just share how it went at the visitation.
Luke’s conversation with my dad:
Luke: Papa, let’s go in there. (pointing into the room with the casket)
Dad: No buddy, Papa’s already been in there, come sit by me.
Luke: Did you see my Grandma?
Dad: Yes, I saw her.
Luke: She’s the dead one.
Annnnnddd that’s why kids should only be at any part of the funeral for 20 minutes.
After the funeral was over, I was home for a few days. I was also home the entire week before the funeral. After I went back to work, Luke was unhappy again because he misses me “terribly, Mommy!” Not long after we were all sick and either Luke was home from school or one of us was home from work, it was just inconsistent again.
Finally! We all get back to normal and I hear murmurs that Luke’s teacher was suspended pending an investigation. Next thing I know teacher has resigned and he gets a new teacher. ANOTHER CHANGE.
Over the last few weeks Luke has started having potty accidents again. He’s also been up as much as newborn and I had to take him back to bed FOUR times last night, TWO the night before, and Rob took him back to bed at least FOUR times the night before that.
I do feel for Luke, it has been a rough 4 months and that is a lot going on for a small boy but I swear that child is more demanding and sleeps way less than his baby brother ever has in the last 20 months. I can’t even remember the last time I got up with Gavin in the middle night.
Is Gavin going to do this too? OMG.
This post is going no where. I’m just as confused as this post is.
Jenna
/ December 5, 2012Kids are resilient! (sp?) this too shall pass… Hang in there! Love u!
Sass
/ December 13, 2012It’s just a small dip, you’ll be on the upswing again – ride it out and do the best you can!